Sometimes teachers will tell me, "Oh, it's so hard to get to know black students," or "It's so hard to get to know my Asian American students," "So hard to get to know my gay or lesbian, bisexual, transgender students," or "It's so hard to get to know my students with disabilities." My response is simple, "no, it's not."
I was asked to teach US Virgin Islands History when I started teaching. I remember telling the principal, "I don't feel comfortable because I'm not from here." His response today sticks with me: "You are here, and I want you to learn about our culture and community. Study it." If you are trying to find ways to connect with identities different from your own, study them. Invest your time like you would in any other new interest, such as a hobby. Where we invest our time says everything about what we value, right?
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